Elementary School Should Not Stress Out Your Child!

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Are you ready to change your child's school experience?

As a parent, you want what's best for your child each and every day, but nobody at school seems to understand exactly how to support your child's behavior needs across the school day.

I get it. I've been there, too.

I can't wait to help you.

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What if...

You could breathe easy when sending your child to school.

You could stop worrying about every phone call home from school.

You slept better at night knowing that when your child exhibited challenging behaviors they were being treated respectfully.

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IEP Meeting Request to Address Behavior Concerns Letter Template

Hi, I'm Abbey!

I remember that feeling of walking into my first IEP meeting and feeling overwhelmed and confused about what a behavior plan was and how it was supposed to work. I never want you to feel that way!

With 11+ years of experience drafting behavior plans for my students and my own children's behavioral needs, I've been able to help hundreds kids


I'm a proud member of the Master IEP Coach® Network and I can't wait to help you on your IEP journey!

Always Walking With You, Abbey

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What we can do together:

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We'll get started immediately on your biggest behavior plan concerns.

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Knowing how to clearly share your concerns is key. I'll show you how.

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Meeting Attendance

You'll never have to walk into a meeting alone, again.

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Trouble Shooting

I'll be here to help you every step of the way, so nothing feels out of control again.

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Emails, Phone Calls, or Zoom. You get to pick how we work together!

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Your child's success and independence will

always be our focus.

You'll finally be able to get all the IEP paperwork and emails under control!

Can you relate to any of this?

Do you get frustrated with not knowing what your child is doing all day at school?

Are you worried about getting yet another phone call home about your child's behavior?

Do wish the school would stop punishing your child for behavior related to their disability?

That's exactly why we should work together!

Let's Talk!

I know trusting someone to help you ​with your child's IEP is a BIG deal.

Let's get to know each other to see if ​we're a good match for fixing your ​child's IEP!

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COLLABORATION is key. I will help you build bridges with the IEP team, not burn them.

Data and research will be at the core of all your IEP decisions and requests.

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Together we'll get the school in sync with your family values to meet your child's needs!

Stop losing sleep over ​IEP meetings!

Your child and your family need you for so ​many things. From deciding what's for dinner ​to scheduling therapy appointments, and ​running errands on a Saturday.

School struggles should not be stealing so ​much of your energy.

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An IEP Meeting RequestTemplate that will move your child’s school team into action so that you can get your concerns about your child’s behavior addressed.

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Abbey Butcher is absolutely incredible to work with as a collaborative team member as an IEP advocate! Abbey really cares about taking care of the family and creating a bridge between the family and the school, so that children don’t fall through the cracks. Going through the IEP process as a parent alone is not easy…..especially if you don’t know your child’s medical needs, educational needs, diagnosed medical conditions, diagnosed educational disabilities, education laws, the possibilities for accommodations, parental rights, assessments, etc. I have done this process as a parent alone and now with an IEP advocate. My recommendation would be for every parent to have an IEP advocate for their children and family. The process has been like night and day. I am extremely grateful for the guidance and support that Abbey Butcher has had throughout our families IEP process.


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Abbey is very knowledgeable regarding education laws, communicating with schools and children's needs. She is caring, positive and professional. We will continue to rely on her to make sure our son's IEP is appropriate and working for him.

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Abbey is not just good. She is fiercely good. Not only are her services, expertise second to none, but her presence in your corner truly has brought a sense of peace and hope in the midst of all the unknowns and challenges raising a child with special support needs brings. We have gone from our child falling through the cracks to true partnership with the schools and improvement in his every day life. Thank you Abbey. Those words and even our money will never be enough! Just hire her

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Let's get started!

Check my calendar and schedule ​a time that works for you!

When we work together you will get:

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Email Support

I'll answer all your IEP questions within one business day.

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IEP Strategies that Work!

No more googling at 3am to figure out what you need to do next.

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Meeting Support

Maybe you need me at your meeting, maybe you don't. No matter if I'm simply helping you prep or sitting at the IEP table with you... you will never be alone!

Don't forget to grab your Free Letter Template!

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helping Parents

to advocate for their elementary schooler’s behavioral challenges in public school

Services Available Nationwide Virtually or

In-Person in some parts of Colorado

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IMPORTANT: I am not a lawyer and I do not give legal advice. All advocacy and IEP decisions are your own.